It’s common knowledge that our favorite subject is ourselves, so take your spouse’s results and go through the descriptions together. Next, take some time to get familiar with your spouse’s strengths. The revelation that you truly have remarkable ability, and that others see it in you, will become a powerful part of your reality.
The more you hear from others about how you use that strength, the more your confidence will build. Ask them to tell you what they see in you, using the description as a starting point. [.Take your strengths results to your spouse or your friends and show them your paragraph descriptions. First, read your Clifton StrengthsFinder® results and get to know what those top-five strengths really mean for you. It starts with your getting to know who you are from a strengths perspective. How do you take personal responsibility for your part in the marriage using your strengths? The answer has three parts: And let’s face it: we all need a little encouragement to keep going if results are slow in the beginning.
This is important because though your spouse may not reward you initially for an action of kindness or generosity, your endorphins will. Taking a strengths approach to your life and your spouse’s not only calls out the best in your spouse, but also it provides access to the natural endorphins that reward you when you use your strengths.